Confusion!!!

I think he is joking... TMD!!!!!

Extract
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4/17/2010
2:02:34 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
kk next week
4/17/2010
2:02:41 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
go watch how to train a dragon!! :P
4/17/2010
2:02:50 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
okie dokie....
4/17/2010
2:03:02 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
in 3D
4/17/2010
2:03:14 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ah..... nvr try b4..
4/17/2010
2:03:18 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
okok..
4/17/2010
2:03:18 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
haha
4/17/2010
2:03:23 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i think you'll like it
4/17/2010
2:03:33 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
pardon my childishness :P
4/17/2010
2:03:54 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
no la.. my fren oso said train a dragon is nice
4/17/2010
2:04:50 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
:) yeap....by the way, i kaemasu kohii for anata
4/17/2010
2:06:08 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
hai.... araigatoo
4/17/2010
2:06:37 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
shiro is white
4/17/2010
2:06:50 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
shiro chocolate? :P
4/17/2010
2:07:37 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
realli ah... sinfull hahaha... i treat u back　白色恋人
4/17/2010
2:07:55 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
2:08:09 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
you know ah
4/17/2010
2:08:24 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
what is Honmei-chocolate?
4/17/2010
2:10:09 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
according to wikipedia: Honmei Choco (本命チョコ), literally, "true feeling chocolate" in Japanese. Honmei choco is chocolate given by women on Valentine's day to men whom the giver has romantic feelings for. This is often given to boyfriends, prospective boyfriends, and husbands. Honmei chocolate is higher-quality and more expensive than giri choco ("obligation chocolate").
4/17/2010
2:10:32 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
wiki......you very keat
4/17/2010
2:10:38 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
salute salute
4/17/2010
2:10:51 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
cos i search on google.. they give me wiki explanation ma
4/17/2010
2:11:32 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
seriously: 本命チョコ haha
4/17/2010
2:11:50 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
huh??? dun understand
4/17/2010
2:12:18 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
sometimes, i really salute the jap folks, the way they use words
4/17/2010
2:12:21 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
本命
4/17/2010
2:12:27 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
hahaha....
4/17/2010
2:12:41 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
where u come accross this honmei choco
4/17/2010
2:12:42 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
why 本命....interesting to think through it
4/17/2010
2:14:14 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
oh well...someone treating me 白色恋人
4/17/2010
2:14:39 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
wait la wait la, all the way from japan
4/17/2010
2:14:49 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
u say u nvr eat b4 ma... and i onli have this chocolate at home
4/17/2010
2:15:22 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
wan to be sinful... must sinful together lo....
4/17/2010
2:16:00 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
2:16:10 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
unless u want korea choco cruch busicuits
4/17/2010
2:17:52 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
No!!! shitakunai
4/17/2010
2:20:15 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
choose 1...
4/17/2010
2:20:44 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
白色恋人 desu
4/17/2010
2:20:49 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
ramen desu
4/17/2010
2:21:10 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ramen??? shin ramen??? lol
4/17/2010
2:21:25 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i onli have shin remen from korea
4/17/2010
2:24:46 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
2:24:47 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
joking joking
4/17/2010
2:24:52 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
白色恋人 chocolate please
4/17/2010
2:24:57 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
onegai
4/17/2010
2:25:05 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
hai...
4/17/2010
2:25:20 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ok
4/17/2010
2:31:39 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
okaeri
4/17/2010
2:32:09 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
tadaima... my network cannot make it... always dc
4/17/2010
2:32:17 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hah okaeri
4/17/2010
2:32:37 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
aye....
4/17/2010
2:32:39 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ai ya...
4/17/2010
2:32:53 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
atamagaitai desu
4/17/2010
2:32:55 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
lol
4/17/2010
2:33:03 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
2:34:45 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
eat panadol
4/17/2010
2:37:51 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
dun wan......
4/17/2010
2:44:51 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
u nvr go out??
4/17/2010
2:46:09 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
no
4/17/2010
2:46:33 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i veli guai one
4/17/2010
2:46:47 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
^o)
4/17/2010
2:46:59 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
oei oei, na ni
4/17/2010
2:48:10 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
:P
4/17/2010
2:48:41 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
rest a while
4/17/2010
2:48:49 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
sayonara...
4/17/2010
2:48:50 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
later having big family dinner
4/17/2010
2:49:04 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
rest a while = stay at home msn wif you
4/17/2010
2:49:16 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
not going to Zzz...
4/17/2010
2:49:21 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
oh.... hahahhaa
4/17/2010
2:49:23 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
I dont nap
4/17/2010
2:50:46 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
oh... i tot pig will nap one....:D
4/17/2010
2:51:09 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
no im different
4/17/2010
2:51:11 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
im no pig
4/17/2010
2:51:25 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
im sua du, mountain pig
4/17/2010
2:51:27 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
dont nap one
4/17/2010
2:52:10 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
aeh............. mountain pig very fierce
4/17/2010
2:52:29 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hai, tadashii :@
4/17/2010
2:53:26 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
okok.. dan better dun make u angry...
4/17/2010
2:54:34 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
dun worry
4/17/2010
2:55:11 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
this sua du, listen to buddhist chant too much
4/17/2010
2:55:31 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
dont get angry easily
4/17/2010
2:55:42 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
angry also, not veli fierce one
4/17/2010
2:58:07 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
iishioni = together
4/17/2010
2:59:00 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
huh??
4/17/2010
2:59:14 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
what ishioni??
4/17/2010
2:59:28 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
together get angry??
4/17/2010
2:59:45 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
chotto chotto, im forming the sentence
4/17/2010
2:59:57 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
and lol for iishioni get angry
4/17/2010
3:02:37 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
wah......raise white flag liao
4/17/2010
3:03:16 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
why why??? check until atamagaitai desuka??
4/17/2010
3:03:27 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hai, tadashii
4/17/2010
3:04:00 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
lol....
4/17/2010
3:04:04 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
who ask u...
4/17/2010
3:04:18 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i long time ago already atamagaitai desu
4/17/2010
3:04:27 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
im asking myself
4/17/2010
3:04:32 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Eiga miyou yo!
4/17/2010
3:05:49 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
"im asking myself" ?????
4/17/2010
3:05:58 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
nope
4/17/2010
3:06:02 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
im forming a jap sentence
4/17/2010
3:06:45 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
realli headache...
4/17/2010
3:06:50 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Eiga o mimashou
4/17/2010
3:06:52 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
raishuu
4/17/2010
3:07:06 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
that sentence i onli know eiga..... wat is miyou...
4/17/2010
3:07:13 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
mimshou i know
4/17/2010
3:07:19 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
miyou = movie lol
4/17/2010
3:07:30 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lets watch a movie
4/17/2010
3:07:38 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
raishuu = next week
4/17/2010
3:07:43 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
mimasu is see so ah ga ah ga
4/17/2010
3:07:44 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
trying to form them
4/17/2010
3:08:09 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
im trying to form: lets go watch movie next week
4/17/2010
3:08:09 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
mimshou??? mimasio??
4/17/2010
3:08:10 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
3:08:23 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i tink is mimashio
4/17/2010
3:08:29 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
mimashio yeap
4/17/2010
3:08:35 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
gomenasai
4/17/2010
3:08:55 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
wah my 10% vocab slowly come back
4/17/2010
3:08:59 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
eiga = movie
4/17/2010
3:09:07 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
3:09:08 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
yaya
4/17/2010
3:09:14 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i oso tot eiga is movie
4/17/2010
3:09:30 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
10% vocab come back
4/17/2010
3:09:31 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
good
4/17/2010
3:09:36 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
give me more chocolate
4/17/2010
3:09:37 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
3:09:43 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
so miyou is movie oso??
4/17/2010
3:10:10 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i give u choco cruch la
4/17/2010
3:10:27 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
miyou = seeing, watching
4/17/2010
3:10:56 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
oh???
4/17/2010
3:11:08 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
wakarimasu
4/17/2010
3:11:57 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
watashi wa tochimasu desu
4/17/2010
3:12:47 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
u will keep trying???
4/17/2010
3:12:51 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
is that the meaning??
4/17/2010
3:13:01 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
no, meaning im confused
4/17/2010
3:13:04 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
lol
4/17/2010
3:13:10 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
and follow by: wakaranai. Akirameta
4/17/2010
3:14:08 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
confuse what??
4/17/2010
3:14:20 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
nihon desu
4/17/2010
3:14:32 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
me too
4/17/2010
3:15:21 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
but omoshiroi
4/17/2010
3:15:49 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hai, omoshiroi
4/17/2010
3:16:59 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
:S
4/17/2010
3:17:37 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
dun always confuse la
4/17/2010
3:18:06 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
not always
4/17/2010
3:18:14 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
today 1st time confused lol
4/17/2010
3:18:33 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i think i'll be better when i start the language class
4/17/2010
3:18:34 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hehehe
4/17/2010
3:18:47 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
yup yup....
4/17/2010
3:19:11 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
then you will really atamagaitai desu
4/17/2010
3:19:27 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i will speak only nihongo to you
4/17/2010
3:19:55 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
-_-''''''''''''''
4/17/2010
3:20:06 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
dan i will ignore u... cos i dunno wat u talking.....
4/17/2010
3:20:11 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
idea
4/17/2010
3:20:18 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
.........
4/17/2010
3:21:06 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
but but.....you my sensei....
4/17/2010
3:21:25 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
me?? iie... watashiwa gakusei desu
4/17/2010
3:22:01 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hai, you're gakusei to your sensei, but you're my sensei, im your gakusei
4/17/2010
3:22:26 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
sensei who always use google.....
4/17/2010
3:23:46 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
daijiobu desu
4/17/2010
3:24:58 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
arigatoo
4/17/2010
3:25:26 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
anatawa ii sensei desu
4/17/2010
3:27:42 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
hai
4/17/2010
3:28:03 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
boku wa sensei ga suki desu! :)
4/17/2010
3:28:28 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
sensei who use google translate ><
4/17/2010
3:29:27 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
boku wa sensei ga suki desu! = sensei who use google translate ???
4/17/2010
3:30:07 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
nope
4/17/2010
3:30:13 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i say i like sensei
4/17/2010
3:30:29 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
then i PS: sensei (you) who use google translate
4/17/2010
3:31:04 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
sensei who use google translate = is to 'suan' you
4/17/2010
3:31:24 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
-_-'''' arigato.....-_-''''''
4/17/2010
3:31:56 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
douitashimashite
4/17/2010
3:33:04 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
OMG, my sis just pass me the pirated Hachiko DVD!!
4/17/2010
3:33:15 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hahha.. i haven buy....
4/17/2010
3:33:18 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
so no worries
4/17/2010
3:33:24 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
pls buy
4/17/2010
3:33:29 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
u sure..
4/17/2010
3:33:31 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
i prefer original
4/17/2010
3:33:34 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
hao de
4/17/2010
3:33:35 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
hai
4/17/2010
3:33:53 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
cos she say its recorded in cinema
4/17/2010
3:34:23 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
she say its recorded in cinema, can see ppl walking aroud ><
4/17/2010
3:35:33 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
nice movie must keep
4/17/2010
3:36:12 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
okie dokie... cos yesterday cityhall dun have... i saw it at J8 one...
4/17/2010
3:36:16 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
help u buy
4/17/2010
3:36:30 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
onegaishimasu, arigatoo
4/17/2010
3:38:46 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
i got to go liao.... going out now... to9 if u continue dan continue lesson no. 57.... wahahhaaaaaa.
4/17/2010
3:38:55 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
lol
4/17/2010
3:38:58 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ok ok
4/17/2010
3:39:14 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
ja... sayonara.....i mean if to9 if u online
4/17/2010
3:39:18 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
headache
4/17/2010
3:39:25 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
ja mata
4/17/2010
3:39:26 PM
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
okok.. bye bye.. enjoy ur dinner
4/17/2010
3:39:32 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
:'(
4/17/2010
3:39:35 PM
*sierra Christopher - クリストファー
Cotton Candy: リムシュキ
bye bye

What's Wrong with Me!!!

Is being the longest ever since i last updated...
Cos i suddenly felt so lonely...
What's wrong with me...

I saw Lew Lew today @ raffles city food court... but i knew i already let go everything cos is a different feeling...
Is 11.49pm now, but he's not online... just felt disappointed :( though i just chatted with him this noon..
He is going back home this weekend, i'm gonna be lonely again...

i don't wanna fall into another trap again... i'm already sensing that i'm falling abit daily.
i told kani i will set a dateline by end May. If nothing really happen, i will tell him off to draw a clear line on the frenship, i dun wan another case 3 yrs back. I always believe there is no pure frenship between 2 sexes. At least not just 2 person alone... What if he find a gf by than, how am i going to adapt the habit of talking to him daily.... Shit!!!!!!!!! Can all guys dun always find companion... Do i look so companion....... :(

Anyway, he just broke off too. Hope once he is back, he will start a fresh new person..And i will not need to spend time healing him.

I miss his gd nite today....

Can anyone tell me what's wrong with me...

Logic of Fish & Prawn attitude Growing!!!

Wednesday night actually went out with Serene to meet up for coffee but haiz... who knows Roy's group is involved and he got Vincent to join too. Didn't wanna mention the details what Vincent said in Jalan Besar Coffee Shop. I will treat i didn't heard and pretend nothing happen..

Anyway, i supposed to meet him on Friday for dinner and he offered to come over my work place to pick me up. Haiz... i told Sis about it, and she scolded me don't waste people time if i don't have the intention. Others will blame me for misleading him.. :(

I actually missed Lew Lew. He sent me a good nite message and i realised i have not meet him for very long cos i keep fly him kite giving all sorts of excuse for not meeting.

Gone the fish and here comes the Prawn!!! :(

What is Love?

One of my collegue forward this email, after reading i was kind of sad cos my dear sis is undergoing similar situation. My cousin-in-law Serene actually called me if i can stay with Sam for a week to accompany her as the family is worried she might want to commit suicide. One of the in-law Niran who is working in the drug centre as a Psychologists actually said Sam might think otherwise. So i was given this job to take care of her. Of cos i can, but i can only go next week so i called her everyday to make sure she is fully occupied.


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To those who are married, .. not married .. and soon to be married ..


MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her
hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate
quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic
calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me
softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away
the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we
didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find
out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a
satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her
anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which
stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my
company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who
had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt
sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take
back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly
in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was
actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me
for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing
something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep
and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just
did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't
want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal
a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a
month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked
me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her
out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was
going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her
odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed
loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she
has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce
intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the
first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is
holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From
the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten
meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't
tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put
her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove
alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned
on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that
I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she
was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair
was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I
wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of
intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her
life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of
intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became
easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday
workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a
few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my
dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so
thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness
in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry
mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an
essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer
and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I
might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms,
walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her
hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;
it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I
held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to
school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life
lacked intimacy.

I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without
locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...
I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I
do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do
you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I
said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she
and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love
each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home
on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then
slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove
away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers
for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled
and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.



The small details of your lives are what really matter in a
relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the
bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for
happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be
your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that
build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
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Missing Call

Last Saturday was a really busy day. Went to Urban Pooch with Audris and Dennis. Suppose to be a celebration for Cotton but seems like she was too tired and was lying around sleeping. Anyway, the place was ok. Food was not bad.

Since last thurs Lew Lew called and i did not picked up his call, my phone is like pretending dead ever since like myself pretending not to answer. I ordered Fish and chips and it comes with a soup. Trust me, the soup taste Good... But sadly, my fish and chips run out of chips, so they gave me onion rings instead. Anyway, before that my mum bought me rice with dishes from the market. So basically, i have my lunch at 12pm and my fish & "Onion Ring" at 3pm. Sinful....


I also ordered grilled chicken meatballs for Cotton and dris ordered German Shepard pie-chicken for Coco. But for some reason, cotton refuse to eat. Great!!! Ended up coco finished all the food. So i should say the food should be gd cos coco was like hunting up n down for the plate. If u wonder how both of them look like. A shot here..


After all the eating, i sent them back and went for my 2nd gathering at Orchard Swensen. Of cos not for my dinner, but just to meet the rest there and we headed down to Mt Faber. Arr... didnt stay there... No Carpark lot so the group decided to go to Cafe delmar. Is a nice place and ambience is good. We actually sat inside as the weather is kind of humid and warm.

After a few drinks, we decided to head to Clark Quay Safra KTV pub. The place was ok. But Rain at MS is better i think. I think we only stayed till about 1am and we went to Marina HK Dim Sum Cafe. Food is so so.

ANW, Serene said Roy's friend Vincent wanna hmm..... ANW, i gave the no. And this start all the rumours, bla bla bla...

I told my Sis Sam, i guess i only appeal to the "Lao Kok Kok" Cos vincent is coming to 30's. And sam said cos u always wear black ma. -_-|||

Waterfall

I was looking on the web and realise how powerfull Waterfall drink is... Dear Serene, now i know how strong the drink is and though u are a gd drinker but... hmm..
No more such drinks....

http://www.stomp.com.sg/stfoodiesclub/drinks/liquiddiet/37/index.html



30ml Kahlua
30ml Galliano
30ml brandy
30ml Sambuca

The two liqueurs and brandy are mixed before 30ml Sambuca is poured into the drink and set alight.

***Danger: Although their names sound harmless, their after-effects are to be reckoned with, even for those accustomed to hard liquor.

'Instead of drinking half a bottle of vodka to get high, you can have one glass of these drinks and get the same effect,'' says Marco De Miranda, 35, general manager of Bar None at the Marriott Hotel.

God heard me!

I was K-po to know if Singtel realli issue any voucher to my client so i email him last week so i can use the same tactics with Starhub if it works and here's his reply:
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ya...they give me SGD30 more...$*#(&^$Q

I tell them to keep the SGD 30....and i swap to starhub.

regards
xxx
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In conclusion, u thought all service provider are idiots and comply to all customer complaint by throwing vouchers to you.

But surprising i receive S$100 voucher from Starhub on the same day??? I guess God heard my voice knowing i need it more urgently due to such condition of my Motorola V3i. And i got myself a Samsung U700 on that Sunday. And guess how much, i only paid S$98 after discount of S$100. A great saving....